Tagged: LIfe

Wipe the Crap Out of Your Life: Go Cleanse Thyselfeth…

Clarity. A full on Smack-You-In-The-Face-Wake-Up-And-End-The-Madness moment of clarity. There is so much more to life than wasting time on being disappointed and upset with your fellow humanoids. Getting angry and being disappointed in people on such a grand scale has no place in our lives. It’s taken up enough wasted...

Just be You. You’re Enough.

Sometimes I think I wasn’t cut out to be someone’s spouse. Sometimes I think I wasn’t meant to be a mom. Most of the time I feel like I’m not living up to my full potential. Sometimes I think if Rose had scooted over just a little bit, Jack could’ve...

4 Days of Pure Emotional Crayness Thanks to the Mayhem in our life…

August 4th, 2015 Well, after years of no major incidents, Matty went to his first trip to Urgent care at Kaiser (We love Kaiser!) He hurt himself playing at school and kept on saying his ankle hurt cause he scratched it but there was no swelling around the ankles so...

Life: Just keep swimming…just keeeeep swimming…just keep your freakin’ ass swimming…

Yesterday was a tough day. Emotionally and mentally I was in a bad way. I got some bad news a few days ago affecting someone I love and it’s been a suckfest of drama for me in my overthinking head. I didn’t want to get out of bed and the...

What Asian Are You? Don’t Be Offended…I Love You Long Time.

I saw this years ago and thought it was funny. I guess it’s circulating again and it’s still definitely funny. To be completely honest, I don’t get mad at people when they ask me where I’m from…I don’t think people have any ill intentions asking…I’m obviously not white so it’s...

Rebel against Comfort and Shake your State of Mind…

Life is really such an adventure, isn’t it? Often times we see ourselves so pigeonholed in our thoughts and emotions that we shut ourselves from even experiencing new things and new people. So we stay in our safe place, content with ourselves, our set in stone way of thinking and...

Diary of a 16 Year Old Kathy: This is the Sad

Looking through old diaries and I found this excerpt from the 11th grade: Kathy Hong (Age 16): “My mom keeps on trying to get me to wear a little makeup but what’s the point. There’s no use trying to pretty up something when the canvas is broken. Nothing much to...

Parenting Thoughts. Yay. Boo. Beer.

There is nothing like having kids of your own to realize that pretty much everything you thought you knew about kids and parenting was wrong and totally delusional. So easy to be so sure of reality when you’re not in the midst of that reality. Raising these little humanoids has...

Selfishness has no place in Marriage or Parenthood

Sometimes I watch TV shows or movies where the heroine can do whatever she wants whenever she wants at any given time and I wanna be HER. Absolutely, I mean, who the hell doesn’t? But reality is, with the responsibilities of being a mom and a spouse, I don’t have...

What People Don’t Tell You When You’re Having a Baby…But Should.

Let’s face it, most people have kids because life tells you that it’s what you should do as a man and a woman. It’s existed from the beginning of time…when you get married you’re supposed to procreate…it’s just a “natural process” of life that’s existed for years and it’s absolutely...