Author: Kathy Hongzeff

Haters Gonna Hate…and it Feels so Good.

“Why the hell would I listen to anything she says? She’s so annoying and now she has a blog about parenting like she’s some expert on anything. She needs to just shut the F up…” 5 things: 1. If you knew me, you’d know that I am NO expert on...

The Hell and Glory that is Raising Little Humanoids

I feel like I’m literally picking up crap off the floor all day long…like that’s all I do. I also live in the kitchen. I don’t know what I’m doing but I’m either in the kitchen or destroying my back picking up crazy amount of toys, books and food off...

Beauty in Scars and Tiger Stripes

Went on a mommy forum where people discuss cool exercises tailored for mommy bodies and there are actually comments left by people who wrote things like “Women should never wear bikinis after they’ve had kids, why would you do that to us?” Especially the ones that got their bodies “destroyed.”...

Toxic People are Poopoocacaheads even if they’re Family

I think that you should love your family. I think there should be forgiveness if the bonds are fractured but it doesn’t mean you have to have them be an active part of your life. Don’t get me wrong…family is IMPORTANT but…sometimes things are so incredibly bad that it is...

Letting It All Go…Bravely

Do you ever find yourself having an Aha! moment, a second of pure clarity a much needed life lesson, a message that is beautifully answered exactly when you need it…at a time in your life when inconsequential things seem so important and you know it’s shit and childish and just...

Love in Motion in the Right Direction

To all those skeptics out there who think marriage is a joke, who think monogomy is unrealistic, who think love is fleeting…I hope someday you’ll meet someone who will obliterate all those thoughts. To be raised in a stable home where the very people who are supposed to teach you...

Forget the Past. Don’t live in the Future. Be in the Present. Kumbaya your Mind Suckas. God Knows I’m Trying.

I’ve been paying attention to those around me and I’ve come to the conclusion that I know way too many angry people hoping for bad karma and ill will towards those they hate and wronged them. So many posts I’ve read on Facebook are so incredibly dramatic and so revealing...

Video: Blind Devotion (YOU. MUST. WATCH. THIS)

If you’re going to watch a video today, make it this one. If you’re single and looking for a special someone, watch this. If you’re married…most definitely watch this. I think more often than not, people have no concept of what true everlasting love means. So many relationships lack focus,...