One thing I’ve learned only after I became a mother of boys… I love the free spirit of little boys before society tells them what they should and should not do or say as males. When boys are small, they hold hands with eachother, they say things like “I love...
When I was young… I wanted to be anything but Asian. Now I be like “Woohoo, I love my people!” Some kids used to call me horrible names, now I have kids who call me names like mommy and pretty princess. I used to look in the mirror & think...
Josh was a 100% formula baby. Matty was a 100% breastfed baby. Both healthy. Both crazy. Both equally loved by their mother. Women…we need to calm the hell down when it comes to talking about breastfeeding, vaccinations and everything in between. Being an A-hole about it doesn’t help your cause...
A post from last year I still find relevant today. Luckily I’m surrounded by women who are proud of her & inspired by her: I looked at her and the first thing I thought was “damn, she looks amazing, I hope to look like that next year!” and then I...
In 2014, I had 7 friends end their marriages. SEVEN. All with multiple kids. To the world, it’s just 7 more numbers to add to a statistic, but to me, it’s heartbreaking and it SUCKS. All seven told me the same thing. The main culprit that killed it all: Lack...
6 years ago 7 year ago, Mike and I were typing out our birth plan and I had my giant suitcase packed ready to leave the house at 5:30am to get induced at 7am. Josh was getting too big and if I wanted to have him naturally, it had to...
All things C-section: I had to have an emergency c-section with Josh and had an even more unpleasant birth experience with Matty but the whole process, the whole physical concept of having a child literally come out of you whether it’s via the vajayjay or cut from your belly…there is...
Let me tell you the reasons why I admire mothers who don’t live in the universe of “My kids are perfect”, “I’m a better mom than you” and “my marriage is so delightful all the time”: You’re intelligent. You question things people are afraid to boldly. You’re incredibly talented in...
At Stater Bros: Cashier: Three cases of beer! You having a party? Kathy: Nope. It’s for my beer fridge. Bagger: That’s awesome. I want one of those. Lady behind me: She also has 2 small boys so that’s plenty reason enough to drink good beer. Let me guess, 4 and...
When I fell down and hurt my ankle a few months ago while on a family hike, Josh and Matty immediately rushed over to me. Josh got down and sweetly started rubbing my leg soothing me and Matty kept on asking me if I was ok in his sweet little...
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