Category: Life is totally Rad sometimes

Mommy is NOT your Maid, Suckas & other Truths…

A few major lessons/responsibilities coming into play for reals FOR REALS starting with consequences for The Hongzeff Boys: 1. Mommy is not your maid, you make the mess you clean it up. You are a guest in our home, you help out whenever you are asked to. You will not...

Complaining about Valentine’s Day has Begun…

I don’t understand people who complain about Valentine’s Day. “Oh, it’s a commercial Holiday just to make money!” “There shouldn’t be a day where you declare your love and be all lovey dovey with your girlfriend or husband…it should be everyday…What a stupid holiday for stupid people…” To those people...

The Cut to the Crap Dating Advice

Am I an expert on dating? Nope. Do I have the perfect marriage? Nope. Is that going to keep me from saying what I want to say about delusional people who think they are perfect and everyone else is crap? Nope. Dating advice for the day:  I think so many...

Kindness: Cut the Crap

For God’s sake people…kindness is kindness. Why must we complain about everything?!?! This ridiculous overdone politically correct world we live in now is giving me a headache and I know I’m not the only one. Sometimes the people who preach kindness are the cruelest of them all…It’s just hidden well...

Wanting a Baby for all the Wrong Reasons

Not gonna lie, I’ve been kinda wanting to have another baby lately.But it’s for all the wrong reasons.I look at my Matty now and he’s no longer a baby. He still has glimpses and parts of him that scream baby but reality is, he’s just turned 4 and he’s growing...

7 Things I’ve Learned From Being a Mom & SAHM

Person with no kids: Omigod, your boys are so cute and fun, you must want to be around them all the time!! Kathy: Nope, not all the time. (Looks at me like I’m a bad person) 7 simple things I’ve learned from being a mother and a SAHM: 1. Having...

Friendship: Love You Long Time

One major life lesson I know to be completely true is… That even in what seems to be the darkest moments of a friendship, if there is true love, a real understanding of eachother and a friendship that exists without the ridiculousness of keeping up with the joneses whether it...

When I Was Young…Youngerish.

When I was young… I wanted to be anything but Asian. Now I be like “Woohoo, I love my people!” Some kids used to call me horrible names, now I have kids who call me names like mommy and pretty princess. I used to look in the mirror & think...