Category: Life is totally Rad sometimes

Maria Kang, why people no love you long time?

A post from last year I still find relevant today. Luckily I’m surrounded by women who are proud of her & inspired by her: I looked at her and the first thing I thought was “damn, she looks amazing, I hope to look like that next year!” and then I...

Verbal Diarrhea on Repeat: You Deserve Better

Verbal Diarrhea on Repeat: You Deserve Better

Continuously saying horrible things to people and then apologizing afterwards. Like a neverending loop of verbal diarrhea. On constant repeat. Stay away from those types of people. Cut them loose. The problem isn’t you…it’s them. They put up a front of security and badassness to mask their true selves. They...

Things my Korean Parents Have Said To Me…

Exhibit A: Classic Typical Korean mom moment # I lost count: Mom: Thanks for the pictures yesterday. Kathy: Fun pics right? They were taken at a Thanksgiving event at the school. Mom: You and the boys came out so great in the picture. Well, the boys always look perfect in...

Relationships: Mars and Venus is Utter Crap

In 2014,  I had 7 friends end their marriages. SEVEN. All with multiple kids. To the world, it’s just 7 more numbers to add to a statistic, but to me, it’s heartbreaking and it SUCKS. All seven told me the same thing. The main culprit that killed it all: Lack...

Perfection Does Not Exist…

Let me tell you the reasons why I admire mothers who don’t live in the universe of “My kids are perfect”, “I’m a better mom than you” and “my marriage is so delightful all the time”: You’re intelligent. You question things people are afraid to boldly. You’re incredibly talented in...