Monthly Archive: January 2015

When I Was Young…Youngerish.

When I was young… I wanted to be anything but Asian. Now I be like “Woohoo, I love my people!” Some kids used to call me horrible names, now I have kids who call me names like mommy and pretty princess. I used to look in the mirror & think...

Maria Kang, why people no love you long time?

A post from last year I still find relevant today. Luckily I’m surrounded by women who are proud of her & inspired by her: I looked at her and the first thing I thought was “damn, she looks amazing, I hope to look like that next year!” and then I...

Verbal Diarrhea on Repeat: You Deserve Better

Verbal Diarrhea on Repeat: You Deserve Better

Continuously saying horrible things to people and then apologizing afterwards. Like a neverending loop of verbal diarrhea. On constant repeat. Stay away from those types of people. Cut them loose. The problem isn’t you…it’s them. They put up a front of security and badassness to mask their true selves. They...

Things my Korean Parents Have Said To Me…

Exhibit A: Classic Typical Korean mom moment # I lost count: Mom: Thanks for the pictures yesterday. Kathy: Fun pics right? They were taken at a Thanksgiving event at the school. Mom: You and the boys came out so great in the picture. Well, the boys always look perfect in...

TMHS: My Husband Being Whimsical (2)

Here’s some more TMHS. It’s never boring: Mike: Will you please massage my arms, shoulders, legs and feet? That’s it. I think I over did it at the gym today. Pleaaase?? Kathy: No. Mike: Pleeeeeeease??? Kathy: Fine. (2 minutes into it) Mike: Omigod, I am so making you a friendship...

TMHS: My Husband Being Whimsical

From time to time, I’ll share funny things my dude says to me… Exhibit A: (Watching ‘Alaska: The last frontier’ on the Discovery channel) Mike: That’s what I need to do. Kathy: Well I ain’t going there. Mike: Hunting for your own food, making your own house…you do everything yourself....