Losing Weight and Dealing with the Haters

For Josh’s 4th Birthday, we had a party at the house and rented a bouncehouse. The boys wanted me to jump with them so I did and I thought I was going to die. Like literally die after bouncing around for a minute. ONE WHOLE MINUTE. That’s how out of...

Grateful for the Tiger Parent…with Feeling.

I grew up in a home that was very normal and ordinarily Korean but pretty dang awesome. We ate most of our meals together, we went to Friday night bible studies and we dressed in our Sunday best for church every week. Mom and dad would spend the whole week...

Words have the Power to Heal or Destroy Lives

People are always talking about things coming full circle… I experienced it first hand today…big time. I try to be as positive as I can on Facebook and in my private life. I try to encourage people as much as I can…and it’s never untruthful…I wholeheartedly mean every single word...

Mommy is NOT your Maid, Suckas & other Truths…

A few major lessons/responsibilities coming into play for reals FOR REALS starting with consequences for The Hongzeff Boys: 1. Mommy is not your maid, you make the mess you clean it up. You are a guest in our home, you help out whenever you are asked to. You will not...

Complaining about Valentine’s Day has Begun…

I don’t understand people who complain about Valentine’s Day. “Oh, it’s a commercial Holiday just to make money!” “There shouldn’t be a day where you declare your love and be all lovey dovey with your girlfriend or husband…it should be everyday…What a stupid holiday for stupid people…” To those people...

The Cut to the Crap Dating Advice

Am I an expert on dating? Nope. Do I have the perfect marriage? Nope. Is that going to keep me from saying what I want to say about delusional people who think they are perfect and everyone else is crap? Nope. Dating advice for the day:  I think so many...

Little Boys, Supermodels and Everything in Between

Josh: Omigoodness, who’s that. Kathy: Her name is Miranda Kerr. Matty: Ohhhhh, pretty giiiiiiiiirl! Josh: Is she a singer? Kathy: No, she’s a supermodel. Josh: She’s a super hero? Kathy: No, she wears pretty clothes and People take pictures of her. Josh: Oh, you should do that mom. Kathy: You...

Kindness: Cut the Crap

For God’s sake people…kindness is kindness. Why must we complain about everything?!?! This ridiculous overdone politically correct world we live in now is giving me a headache and I know I’m not the only one. Sometimes the people who preach kindness are the cruelest of them all…It’s just hidden well...

Wanting a Baby for all the Wrong Reasons

Not gonna lie, I’ve been kinda wanting to have another baby lately.But it’s for all the wrong reasons.I look at my Matty now and he’s no longer a baby. He still has glimpses and parts of him that scream baby but reality is, he’s just turned 4 and he’s growing...

7 Things I’ve Learned From Being a Mom & SAHM

Person with no kids: Omigod, your boys are so cute and fun, you must want to be around them all the time!! Kathy: Nope, not all the time. (Looks at me like I’m a bad person) 7 simple things I’ve learned from being a mother and a SAHM: 1. Having...